Mellower moments on the long road to maturity

NINE months on from Teddy’s second birthday, has our lively, inquisitive bundle of fun matured into a respectable mellow adult yet?

True, many labrador owners insist that labs tend to display puppylike behaviour much longer than other breeds, which means 2¾ is not exactly ancient.

But puppy training manuals and websites blithely state that by the time a labrador is two or three years’ old, their physical and emotional journey to adulthood is complete. So how is that journey going for Teddy?

Checking over that blog entry for his second birthday, have things changed at all? Weightwise, he’s checking in a 42kg and although he’s big and powerful, the vets think he could comfortably drop a couple of kilos to be fully healthy.

He’s still sleeping though the night, though he now has a bigger more supportive bed and has not been confined to his den for weeks. He’s never chewed things and can be trusted around the house even if we’re out, which is a big plus.

Chemically castrated since the autumn, he’s still as sweet-natured as ever, eager to meet strangers and eternally curious about anything and anyone within sight.

Great so far, but there are still times when that adolescent streak results in a selective deafness when other distractions are particularly tempting.

Recall has become a LOT better, but although successful outings far outweigh negative experiences, there are still those moments when it’s hard to believe that we are not witnessing a deliberate act of disobedience.

Dangle a tasty morsel in front of him in the kitchen and he’s got pin-sharp hearing and responds to instructions with alacrity. Out in the park or woods and it can be a different story.

But we’ve always believed in the Susan Garrett mantra that dogs “do the best they can with the education you’ve given them in the environment you’ve asked him to perform in” – or in other words, it’s our fault as trainers if Ted’s behaviour falls short.

Undoubtedly there’s a direct correlation between bad behaviour and energy not being dissipated earlier. Get out for a race around the woods with your best friend, and the degree of obedience later is on a whole different level.

All of which means that the more chances there are for healthy exercise, the more likely it is that his behaviour will be good.

Consistency pays off, as does persistence. And in recent months he has shown an increasing willingness to drag himself away from intriguing distractions at the sound of a shout or whistle, even if at times the response has been a shade reluctant.

The switch from harness to slip lead has continued to bring benefits. His loose-lead walking is usually excellent, though he may still lack the road sense and composure that allows completely stress-free off-lead walking.

Yes, we’re not there yet. But there are more of those small victories that show we’re getting there: those moments where there’s a clear and obvious distraction in the shape of a runner, family or other dog in the park and he will make the “right” decision to come back to our side rather than disappear across the field to say hello.

Or out in the woods in the evening with a couple of other family members where there’s been no jumping up at all, no running off to greet passers-by and no reluctance to get back on the lead when we’re read to leave.

We’re only too conscious of the fact that random strangers don’t want a huge black beast careering towards them at high speed determined to make their acquaintance. But owners of bigger and bouncier dog breeds know just how difficult it can be to provide risk-free environments where you can train an excited puppy to adapt to all the exciting distractions to be found in the outside world.

And yet our first visit to the coast since he was a very young puppy gives us a warm glow of satisfaction – and relief. Encountering a couple of other soaking labs down on the foreshore, Ted is entranced.

There are a LOT of other families around, including small children, picnics and other irresistible temptations. And yet Teddy does manage to resist racing off to explore. Instead, he’s content to chase a ball up and down one small section of beach – and show off to his new friend Primrose that he’s not scared of the waves at all.

Sandy, salty and suitably exhausted on our journey back from the Dorset coast, we hope it’s been as memorable a day out for him as it has been for us. Gradually, incrementally, our sweet-natured young labrador is learning the ropes, and becoming a more reliable canine companion by the day.

Picture that paints a thousand words

IT’S not every day you get the offer of having your portrait painted – especially when you’re a dog.

But thanks to the kindness and generosity of talented artist friend Julian Renouf, Teddy the labrador now has an intimately observed hand-painted record of one of his disarming and very familiar expressions.

HARD STARE: Teddy the labrador PORTRAIT: Julian Renouf

This is not so much a look of love or affection, you understand, but more akin to Paddington Bear’s disapproving “hard stare”.

Except that it Ted’s case it’s not a direct criticism as much as a plea for attention, a reminder that once again our priorities appear to be misplaced.

Instead of instantly responding to his unspoken request for a walk, meal or game, we are selfishly pursuing our own agenda: eating, reading or watching TV without reacting to that unspoken demand.

The subtle twitch of an eyebrow indicates an extra nuance of urgency. It’s time. Time for that walk in the woods or extra portion of kibble…

Since his second birthday, Ted has calmed down a lot. He’s still easily excited by new faces, but there’s been slow and steady progress towards becoming more trustworthy off the lead and around other dogs, walkers and joggers.

CALMING DOWN: Teddy at two years’ old

Just as the double-click harness and Halti were game changers in getting him to walk politely, being able to use a slip lead has helped make it quicker and easier to get out of the car and start enjoying a taste of freedom in the woods.

It would have been impossible to use when he was younger and more boisterous. At 40kg, he was too powerful to control on one, even aside from the danger of any damage to his neck.

FREE SPIRIT: off the beaten track in Bledlow

But of course it’s a process that’s not without its setbacks. There are still those occasional nightmare moments when he’ll subbornly refuse to obey any instructions or takes a muddy lunge at an unsuspecting stranger.

AUTUMN COLOURS: off the lead in the woods

Yet there are many more good days than bad days, with darker nights and worsening weather reducing the number of hazards on regular walking routes, allowing us to normalise and reinforce those good habits, like the willing return to peep of a whistle or the contented leap into the back of the van at the end of a wander.

GOOD HABITS: learning the ropes

Of the various trainers who have encounted Teddy in his short life, Leah, a very competent local obedience trainer and registered veterinary nurse, has been the most supportive and consistent in helping him mature, and we’ve been very grateful for her advice and practical help – even if it means he can’t help going absolutely beserk with delight when she comes to the door.

GROWING UP FAST: Teddy on his best behaviour

Leah’s training walks have been paying off in terms of recall, although of course there’s nothing as interesting as a new face and their alluring treats. Mum and Dad tend to appear a lot less interesting by comparison, and far easier to ignore.

Other owners are reassuring about these moments of selective hearing or apparent disobedience. Totally normal, we’re told. And of course later on, when someone’s back home, on their best behaviour and butter wouldn’t melt, it’s easy to forgive those temporary setbacks.

INNOCENT LOOK: the model citizen

Without doubt, the best part of any day is the chance of a runaround with Ted’s favourite friend, the one-year-old springador who lives opposite. But how to make sure those playful romps are a reward for good behaviour, rather than encouraging the pair to learn bad habits?

It may be a delicate balancing act, but the sheer delight they take in each other’s presence is a joy to behold.

Amid the snuffling and grumbling, the high-speed chases and play-fights over sticks, this is a love affair on a whole different scale, and one that’s totally unique. There’s no other furry friend that generates this sort of reaction from Ted.

He has friends he’ll chase or nuzzle briefly, and even one amorous Jack Russell terrier whose advances he’ll suffer with good-humoured patience.

AMOROUS: Jack the terrier

But Buddy the springador is in a leage of his own, with both dogs collapsing exhausted and contented after a high-speed chase around the park.

The added bonus is that they tend to be so preoccupied with each other that it’s easier to distract them from any passers-by or other hazards.

TOP DISTRACTION: playing with friends is a favourite pastime

Which brings us back to those wonderful brown eyes, and that winning stare.

At 28 months, Teddy is still far from being the model citizen. He’s slightly overweight, he’s very bouncy and he still gets so excited on occasion that he can hardly contain his excitement, which can be worrying if you have 40kg of black labrador heading towards you at high speed.

But we wouldn’t have it any other way. Thank you, Julian, for giving us a permanent and very personal memento of such a special time in a young labrador’s life. It’s very special!

THE EYES HAVE IT: Teddy tries to influence decisions